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AJsGirl · Member

Hello everybody!!!

FrootLoop · Naturally Frootilicious

Helloooooooo!

And I am beyond happy at your news. I don't suppose you got to hear the judge tear down CNW? Yes, I'm bad I know. And I don't care.

You've worked so hard and for so long to provide stability for your kids, I've long been in awe of your strength and I'm just so happy for you all!

~FrootLoop

AJsGirl · Member

Frooty, neither of us even got to see the judge. They were in that mediation office the entire time, it was like they were scared to come out. When it came time for me to sign, we took the other mediation office because they refused to be in the same room with me. I was in there by myself, with my attorney going back and forth between them and me. XH and CNW were both in there with their attorney. At one point, our attorneys were arguing, and AJ stepped in the office to ask if everything was copacetic, then sat back down in the waiting area. Once everything was signed, my attorney took the papers to the judge in his chambers for his signature, then filed the documents with the clerk downstairs. That was it.

When my mom asked why AJ wasn't in the room with me, he said, "I know she can handle herself and has everything under control. My spouse doesn't need me to hold her hand and make decisions FOR her, unlike XH." WIN!

EmmDee · Guru

Hey AJsGirl! Nice to see you wander over here. We are pretty slow at this board on the weekends but I bet you will get some more warm welcomes come Monday. My only real "update" that you may not be aware of is that I moved in with the darling Frooty one. Other than that, life has been stressful but not very eventful.

RichardInTN · I believe in I.D.I.C.

Welcome!

RichardInTN · I believe in I.D.I.C.

AJsGirl wrote:
Frooty, neither of us even got to see the judge. They were in that mediation office the entire time, it was like they were scared to come out. When it came time for me to sign, we took the other mediation office because they refused to be in the same room with me. I was in there by myself, with my attorney going back and forth between them and me. XH and CNW were both in there with their attorney. At one point, our attorneys were arguing, and AJ stepped in the office to ask if everything was copacetic, then sat back down in the waiting area. Once everything was signed, my attorney took the papers to the judge in his chambers for his signature, then filed the documents with the clerk downstairs. That was it.

When my mom asked why AJ wasn't in the room with me, he said, "I know she can handle herself and has everything under control. My spouse doesn't need me to hold her hand and make decisions FOR her, unlike XH." WIN!

O.k. ... I have to say it. AJ just got major "cool points".

alice underground · Guru

Welcome! Nice to see you here and congratulations on the victory.

dqm either · Don't Quote Me

Hi back!

HamsterFan · Owner of Halvdan

Nice to see that you have joined us : )

kapper · I am always right, unless I am wrong.

Nice to meet you AJ's Girl!

Cinthy · Senior Member

Hi AJsGirl and welcome!

Cactus · Senior Member

Hi, AJ's! Nice to see you over here.

Congratulations about the court victory! I am very happy for you. What a relief it must be.

Family Gal · Veteran Member

I don't know what was occurring, AJ, but it sounds like a divorce settlement? I'll bet you are glad it's over.

Welcome!

Lady Paint · Horse Junky. Dog Flunky.

Hi AJ's!! Nice to see you here. This is a really great board.

I was sooooooooooooooooooo glad to hear about your success.

And what an awesomely cool husband you do have.

Now can we work on getting CNW to legally change her first name? biggrin

Riding in the WY Wind · ~Ride Free~ ~ Live Free~ (M)

Hey. Glad to see you. And can't wait to hear awesome summer plans with the wonder twins!!!

Evil Stepmother · Guru

Hello, AJ's Girl. Congratulations on your success!

dinkyd · Wine, like women, gets better with age

Welcome! It's such great news! You must still be floating on air!

What do the WonderTwins have to say?

AJsGirl · Member

Lady Paint wrote:
Hi AJ's!! Nice to see you here. This is a really great board.

I was sooooooooooooooooooo glad to hear about your success.

And what an awesomely cool husband you do have.

Now can we work on getting CNW to legally change her first name?

I won't hold it against you, LP. wink

The Wonder Twins are so happy. They have been the happiest I've ever seen them. The just look so light, even their body language has changed.

Family Gal, it was a custody modification. For the last 12 years, I had shared custody with my XH. He married someone that thought emotionally abusing children should be a national passtime. I tried to get full custody 5 years ago and lost. We filed again in January of 2011, and this time we won.

Thanks everyone! smile