What do you do when you have the house to yourself?
If I have the house by myself, I don't bother getting dressed (unless I'm cooking something that's "splattery" like bacon). I hate clothes (but, in deference to other people's sight and sanity, I do "cover up" when others are present).
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"Yabba Dabba Doo" - Frederick J. Flintstone... So what?
(Judd Nelson as Atty. Robin 'Stormy' Weathers in "From the Hip")
Eat crackers in bed! In fact, eat whatever you want, since you don't have to worry about cooking to please someone else's taste. Hog the remote. Don't bother shaving your legs or underarms. Invite girlfriends to a sleepover and do each other's hair and nails and watch "chick flicks."
-- Edited by iluvsuomi1989 on Tuesday 8th of October 2013 03:21:51 PM
I usually watch all the tv shows that DH doesn't like to watch. He usually doesn't watch tv, but when I put something he doesn't like he keeps criticizing the show and annoys me, so I change the channel.
Also I eat the things that he doesn't stand like pasta or picadillo.
I am (I'm insane) thinking of inviting the older girls from the girls home that I work with over for a sleep over one night. 8 teenage girls? What could go wrong? BWAHAHAHA!
I usually eat like crap while he's gone. I still make food for the kids, but easy stuff. Then I graze on random things.
I dropped him off today. I also went shopping. I have canned soup (because heaven knows I have no time to make myself real food these days), chocolate, ice cream, and a couple easy things to make for the kids for the days that we run out of time.
My ice cream was slush by the time I got it home, but it will re-freeze ok. It's less than half the price in the US as it is in Mexico. Ridiculous. And I get my favorite flavor!
I watched a movie tonight after the kids went down. Finally got a call from him, he made it ok.
It's so good. Adding peanut butter to chocolate ice cream isn't quite the same.
We always compromise and buy cookies and cream. Because it's the only one that both of us like! And real ice cream only comes in 2 or 5 gallon tubs here, otherwise it's that frozen vegetable fat or whatever. *gag* So we can't fit two of our favorites in the freezer. lol
I'm going to get mint chip when I pick him up next monday. He has a small cookie dough ice cream re-frozen and waiting for him.
-- Edited by living revived on Monday 14th of October 2013 03:53:15 PM
I hope you were able to get some quality alone time in there somewhere, LR! Once a year, DH has gone on a mission trip with the youth from our church. This past summer he made a last minute decision to go and is signed up for next summer, but the handwriting is on the wall and he may stop going before too many more years.
I dread DREAD that day because I live for that week of solitude. The other 51 weeks of the year, we are together most of the time. Oh, sure, an hour or two here and there, but for the vast majority of time, we're Frick and Frack. Sigh.
Kina, unfortunately no. I had a friend offer to take them, but I didn't want to send them over while they were sick, since she has a two year old.
It's ok. I get a night out by myself every week when he's home- I'm definitely looking forward to it this week! He offered to let me go on Tuesday, but I'm not sure I'll be feeling up to it. Hopefully by Thursday.
They were pretty good. They napped a lot of the way up, and were troopers through the shopping. They were so excited to see DH! It was so cute. They didn't fall asleep until 10:30 or 11, though. Kind of cranky today.
Not so much better. Dealing with some work issues that have really big real life consequences for those involved. And when we pulled in that night, we got an email from the landlord that popped up on DH's phone. We have to move soon, he wants to sell the house.
Uh oh, I hope it gets better.
Can you buy the house from him?
I know the general area where you live (the city I mean) and I have a good friend living there as well as some acquaintances, let me know if you want some help with finding a new house.
Thanks, Des! We're about 15-20 minutes away from downtown, and we'd prefer to stay in the area since we only have one car. We've found one place that we love, and I'm going to see if he'll consider dropping the rent from $500 US to 5000 pesos/month. We're good renters, and handy at fixing things, so maybe? I have to call today.
We can't buy the place we're in. He's asking for 1 million pesos, about 80,000 US. We don't even have 1/10th of that saved up. And we can't get a mortgage or the like since we don't have the right visas yet.
OMG 5000 pesos for rent?
I think that's a lot, but then again I'm cheap when it comes to rent :P
Are you guys planing on staying here? I'm curious :)
How long until you get the right visa? If you guys need something from a couple of citizens let me know, we'll help you!
Aw, thank you! Hopefully by February we'll have our FM3 or FM2. It's a matter of making our income level appear greater than it is. They upped the requirement this year. Missionaries don't make that kind of money! Basically, we'll have to shuffle funds around from an outside savings to our checking account for three months in a row to make it work, and we have a large donation scheduled to come in November that we can move around. One church sends money for 6 months at a time, and it should arrive soon.
DH called the place. He's not willing to come down on the rent AND he says it's $600 US, not $500. I repeated $500 back to him in the original call, so he's full of crap, but oh well.
I know, we pay 3000 pesos rent now! These places are crazy to me- they're not much bigger than our current place. We do have a good deal for our house for our area, though. 5000 would be our ABSOLUTE limit. We know one place will be coming up for rent, but probably not until in January or February, possibly later if the new place they're moving in to isn't finished on time. Bah.
3000 sounds more manageable, at least to me. Around here rentals are also very expensive.
My sister just moved and was looking for a place for less than 2000 and she got a little house, and I mean little, two tiny bedrooms, one tiny kitchen and a dining room/living room and that's it, luckily it's 10 from where she works.
Also with 5000 you can totally pay the monthly of a mortgage for a decent sized house. That guy is being an ass, is he Mexican or American, sometimes Mexicans will try to get more money from foreigners just because they are foreigners.
I hope everything works out for you guys!
Has someone asked about your puppy yet?
Mexican. I know, there's definitely a difference from when I call and when DH calls and people's reactions. I have a good accent. *blushes* They don't realize I'm american until I show up. Sad, but true. We call it the "guero special" around here when they give you a crappy price.
So I was driving around earlier today looking for a new place, and I found one on a street I had looked at before. It's a 4 bedroom, two 3/4 bath (no one has bathtubs around here, IDK if they're more common where you are, Des?), and it's $3500 pesos/month! Right around the corner from our favorite taco stand, too. :P
We checked it out this evening and I like it a lot! Two bedrooms upstairs, two downstairs. A bathroom on each floor. More yard space than we have right now, although it's mostly dirt (which the kids will LOVE. Me... not so much.) Space downstairs where we could put our office things, a dining room area where we could also add a couch downstairs, a living room space upstairs, and a balcony ( :D ). Carpet on the stairs, and I *think* in the upstairs bedrooms, although I don't remember right now. Maybe not.
Get this- since the last people moved out, someone broke in and stole EVERYTHING except one huge tv cabinet. Ceiling fans, toilets, sinks, washer/dryer, kitchen cabinets. This is almost how our current house was when we moved in. They are going to replace almost everything (not sure about the washer/dryer) when they get someone who is going to move in, because they didn't want to do it and then leave it vacant. BUT, since we have our own kitchen cabinets and a bathroom sink/cabinet set, we asked if they would possibly take 3000 pesos and they could keep the stuff if we move out. They're going to ask the owner- who is the brother of the guy, owner lives in Los Angeles- to see if he'll take that. If not, that's fine, we'll still probably take it and just enjoy having extra cabinetry somewhere else in the house that we can take with us when we finally buy a lot and build. We'd definitely get the better end of the deal if they accept, so I'm cool with it.
DH still wants to see the property our friend found, which we're supposed to do Friday. I told him 1) it's waaay farther, 2) it's a 3 bedroom, which could be slightly problematic with our office stuff or the kids playspace, depending on how it's set up, and 3) it's 1000 pesos more, which is money we could be using to pay off our car so we can save up to buy a lot of our own. But we can go look.
So we'll see! Hopefully they can get ahold of him quickly, so we can sign a contract before we leave. ;)
Oh, and when we mentioned we have 3 big dogs right now, they said "GOOD!" They're really not thrilled that someone broke in. It's kind of par for the course in Mexico, unfortunately, so I'm not overly concerned. We get a house sitter any time we leave, and we leave the dogs. Shadow is going to be ENORMOUS; he's already slightly bigger than Bella and he's only 4 months. :blink: No one has bitten yet for buying him. It would help if all my LOVELY english speaking friends would stop posting sarcastic comments about people actually BUYING ???? dogs in mexico. Shaddup.
LOL at the "guero special" it's a sad reality of our culture and I apologize! We are not all the same!
That house rocks!! I hope you get it and that your DH goes with it! Your waistline is going to be very happy about the taco stand LOL
That makes me sad about where we live, we don't have tacos near us :(
Having bathtub is very very uncommon here as well, you need to be very wealthy to have one in your house when you buy it.
3500 is a great price for a house that big and I bet it has a lot to do with the fact that they don't want it to be vacant anymore. I hope you guys get it!!
In the US is more usual to adopt pets, but here it's not unusual at all to buy them, I've read the comments and I just laugh. also your puppy is a very nice breed (sp?) if DH allowed me we would get a dog for LO, she would love him so much!
DH will go along with the house happily as long as the other one isn't something outstanding. It would have to be pretty great, for that price and distance.
We had bathtubs in our mobile homes, but they were imported from the US where it's weird to NOT have one. One still had a license plate on the back.
You spelled breed right! I know, he's so pretty. Very trainable, too.
For real! They were SUPER shallow, but they had them!
I'm going to put one in when we build our place some day. :P There are sometimes tubs at the segundas here.
We kick shadow off the couch for that very reason. We bought a HUGE pillow for him and Daisy, and he sprawls out on it, with his back legs and head hanging off opposite ends.
So, he's buying the cabinets off of us, taking them off the rent over the span of a few months, and as soon as they can re-wire the electricity for the house, we can move in!
The kids got an early Christmas present from their grandparents, and they got to pick paint for their rooms. DS wanted yellow. I thought, great! That's a change (his room has been blue), and I can live with yellow. He went straight for the brightest, yellowest yellow you've ever seen. I told him "Honey, you can get yellow, but we have to go lighter. You won't sleep with that on the walls!" So he settled for Lemon Pound Cake yellow, by Behr. (sp?) DD said she wanted pink on the way to the store, which I wasn't thrilled about but was going to honor. When we got there, I pulled pink cards in colors I could tolerate and asked her which one. Then I showed her the purple cards, since that's been her favorite color, and asked her if she wanted pink or purple. She looked at them very seriously and said "Poh-poh." I asked if she was sure she wanted purple, not pink, and she wanted purple. Yay! My parents' house was PINK- carpet, dining room, living room drapes, my bedroom- I can't stand lots of pink on the walls in my house. But I was going to do it for my baby.
AWESOME update living!!!
And yeeeeiii on the decent colors for the walls.
When our second floor was finished( at my parents house) my dad let us pick the color of our rooms, to my mother's dismay lol. Well I picked a lovely mint, my middle sister picked deep purple and my younger sister picked cotton candy pink. My mom was beside herself with the colors my sisters picked.
It's very nice that you let your kids pick the paint!
Probably next-next weekend. lol Not this weekend, but the next one.
I have 100 different ideas on how to arrange things and how to paint the rest of the house! Painting everything else will have to wait. There's NO storage, so on Buen Fin weekend we got two free-standing shelving units (one for food, one for DH's tools) and some plastic chests of drawers for the kids' rooms. I'll probably have to go back and get more later, but that was a start.
I'm not packing yet, but I'm purging! I'm getting rid of a LOT of stuff. All the things the kids have outgrown, all the baby equipment, some of their toys (they're about to get more for Christmas and then their birthdays in April), some linens, old clothes of mine or things that I don't particularly care for any more.
I got the shelving units for 399 pesos each. A bargain! They're pretty tall, and I think they're 6 shelves each. No doors, just shelves, but maybe I can make a curtain or something. I'd guess they were 50% off. I think the drawer chests were 199 pesos, which isn't a super bargain compared to what I'd pay in the US normally, but still cheap for our area. Those usually go for 350+ pesos.
Buen Fin... hmm. There were almost as many people as on Black Friday. I went on Saturday, and then again on Monday, and Monday was definitely more packed. There weren't as many things on sale or as good of sales as there are in the US, but there were certain things (like the storage shelves) that had good sales. I saw a lot of people buying HUGE tv's, so assume those were a good price!
I heard that they're actually going to do a Black Friday sale in our area at certain retailers. Not sure if that's true or not. It would be the first year.
Des, you should take advantage of Cyber Monday! It's the Monday after Thanksgiving, all online sales.
oh oh oh purging is goooood
You get to start fresh! I love that.
Yeah I figured, on Baby Center they have this running thread about deals and on Black Friday some of the prices are really really low. My dad actually got a 50" tv with a free blue ray reader and a 200 gift card for zulu I think it was called for 8999.
I would love to get something on Cyber Friday, but the prices to ship stuff to here are outrageous! Think 60 bucks. I'm not paying that much to ship the cheap things here lol.