I posted about her on this board before. Can get the backstory here http://invisapeeps2.activeboard.com/t57665044/should-i-give-her-another-chance-long/
Yesterday I went on a little over night trip with my super close friend that kinda stepped into the BFF role when ex BFF stepped out. We took the kids to a tourist town and stayed the night in a cool hotel suite. The kids just played around the hotel room and we went swimming in the hotel pool a lot and out to eat. She lives 2 hours away so I don't get to see her and her kids much.
Well F is friends on FB with ex BFF. I actually met F through E as E went to high school with F. So F starts posting pics of me and her and our kids to her FB yesterday as we are hanging out. E immediately "likes" each picture. Then this morning E messaged F and said something about "I saw you and Balloon are in tourist town. I know Balloon is on top of this stuff but thought I would let you know blah blah place has a half off coupon on groupon." or something like that. F just ignored it.
So it comes across as a little facebook stalkerish which is why I blocked E in the first place. I know she likes to fb stalk as far as look and search for stuff to see what you are doing and with whom and where and when blah blah. But if F posts something with me or the kids in it, E can still see it. I also think it came across as very desperate to try to be nice towards me through F in order to I don't know what, I guess get me to be her friend again.
I am definitely not refriending her. According to F, she is fighting over FB with her new BFF she met and became super close to super fast and still puts drama on FB all the time. I just have no time to deal with drama llamas.
I called it though that she would be the one trying to come back and yep she is. I don't do anything like this to her. I have not sent any messages to her through other people or whatever and she has done it to me multiple times. It looks a little desperate since she was the one that "Needed a break from me" and "you are too stressful to be friends with". LOL
And of course it never occurred to you that exBFF liked the pictures on F's Facebook page because she's Facebook friends with F, who is also in the pictures. And being friends with F, gave her a heads up on coupons to save her friend some money.
It's not facebook stalkerish; she's not trying to reconnect with you through F. She's being friendly with F. You just happened to be in the area.
Except she specifically mentioned me by name when messaging F.......
She is not close friends to F anymore. She has not seen F in probably 2 years. She knows F is best friends with me. She does not go out of her way to like pictures of F that don't contain me or my kids nor does she message F any other time when I am not with her.
So it definitely came off as odd and F thought so too. She was laughing about it and was agreeing with me it came across as desperate.
Of course she mentioned you by name, you were in the pictures, too. She had useful information to share, so she messaged someone she thought was a friend. Too bad she didn't know she was messaging during the mean girls club meeting. The desperate ones are you and your catty friend F.
Right. I am pretty sure the mean girl is the one that felt the need to "Break up" with their friend. That is so middle school. I don't toss friends lightly like she does. Especially when our kids are involved. She hurt my kids and she hurt me and she hurt DH. I feel no loyalty to her anymore and don't feel bad about making fun of her. You cannot dump on people and then still expect them to never say anything bad about you.
It was desperate whether you think so or not. She sent a coupon for one place in an entire town of tourist places and we never said we were even going to said place. So it was out of nowhere. It was like she was just looking for an excuse to try to be thought of by us.
Yeah, it does look a little desperate. I think that Facebook really brings out the worst in some people.
My mom and 2 of her friends have very into horses together for almost 20 years. One of the friends is now pretty much an Ex friend. If she's not the Queen Bee of her little friend group, she gets upset and snippy. Plus she is a user. She's very charming about it, so people don't know how much they're being used until they actually sit down and think about it. Recently Ex Friend pulled a major stunt that inconvienenced everybody. Mom, Friend and Ex Friend all kept their horses together on a small barn on Friend's property. At this point, there were only 2 horses - Mom and Friend were sharing a horse and Ex friend's horse. Ex Friend with less than a week's notice decided to move her horse to a different barn. Horses, being herd animals, can't be alone. So Mom and Friend were left scrambling trying to find a horse to borrow. Very inconvienent, lot of bad feelings.
Friend purchased a new horse, and Ex Friend hasn't called to congratulate her, ask a question, or even "liked" it on FB. Yet Ex Friend likes almost everything my sister posts.
I know what you mean Ophelia. I have a friend that I still love. She is super sweet. But she is just kinda slow fading me. She has not returned any of my calls for months now and cancelled on showing up at a party she originally said she was going to come to and then when I tried to give her husband a birthday present she never even called me back so I could meet up and give it to him. So I took the hint and just said I was not going to attempt to contact her anymore. If she wants me, she can contact me. But then she goes on fb and likes my pictures and stuff when she is hardly ever even on fb. So I am like "Girl please. If you can like my pictures you can take a few seconds to message or call me back."
